Mother of the Year…whatever.

My crazy ass ex-wife #2 is seriously mentally delusional. For some reason she thinks she is the greatest mother in the world, “Mother Of The Year” I like to call her. I have always tried to keep some sort of friendship with her really for the kids sake. I felt it was kinda important and still do. But not now.

The other day when she called, I did not call her right back. I was kinda busy. This sent her into a frenzy of really crappy text messages to me. I would have posted the text messages but accidental erased them. She started saying that if I did not call her back she would call the police. I texted her back and said I had some friends over and that the kids would call her tomorrow. She started saying that I was a drunk, was more into getting “p***y” than taking care of my kids, and a whole bunch of other great stuff. She was even saying that the girls wanted her more than they wanted me. She also said that she is getting the child support order reversed because she was not served properly. (Read my post on this by clicking here).

Now I am irritated. Lets do a little run down to see who does more for these kids and who is the better parent.

You:

Cheated on me which also means you cheated on your kids.
Stole money from me which made it difficult to feed the kids, and you knew this.
Have at least three DUI’s on your record.
Have been to jail.
Are in an alcohol rehabilitation program. This is a total cop-out, you just cant take responsibility for your actions and want to blame it on something. When we were together you rarely drank.
Will not pay any kind of child support to contribute to the well being of your children.
Constantly lie. Habitual lier.
Have constantly lied to your kids.
Cannot mentally take the responsibility of being a mother.
You only want to be a mom in front of people or when it is convenient for you.

Me:

Changed my life around to become a single dad.
Had to quit a great well paying job to take care of the kids because you constantly cancelled picking them up or simply did not show up.
Had the daunting and disturbing task of having to tell the kids you were moving out.
Constantly hold and care for the kids when they cry because of your crap.
Wake up, feed, clean, and generally take care of all the kids by myself.
Make sure the kids get to school.
Entertain the kids and keep them busy on a constant basis.

If your any kind of parent, you know the list will go on and on and on. It is extremely aggravating dealing with an ex-wife when kids are involved.