Friggen ex-wife

Saturday I had my daughter’s birthday party here at my house. My daughter asked her mother if she would come to her party. For some strange reason, the ex said she would be here. I don’t get it, we are DIVORCED! Why would I want you here at my house in the first place.

Now if we got divorced simply because it didn’t work out then okay, I could see her coming over and co-parent and be friends. But, that simply is not the case. This is a woman that made my life a living hell. She cheated on me, stole from me and my children, treated my entire family like absolute shit, and did not give a crap about anything but herself.

Unfortunately, my daughter was really looking forward to her mother being here at her party and that was all she talked about, she was verbally excited. I didn’t want to break my daughter’s heart so I let her come.

The ex stayed at her mother’s house the night before. Because the ex-mother-in-law and I get along, I went to pick her up, which meant I had to pick up the ex-wife as well.

 As soon as the ex got in my van I could tell it was going to be a shit day for me. She got in the van and just had an attitude already. I didn’t even speak to her for the 45 minute ride to my house. It was very uncomfortable.

At my house and people start showing up. My parents, sister, and nephews were the first to arrive. I just thought “Oh Shit, here we go”. My family did not even speak a word to her at all. Now that a lot of people are here, she just went outside and sat there like she owned the place.

Than all the sudden it happened. The kids were in the pool and my nephew and daughter were playing. I guess they were pushing each other or something (I didn’t see what happened) all I hear is the ex start yelling at my nephew and my MOM telling the ex to shut up. The ex was being rude to my mother and I saw my mom get up like she was getting ready to charge her like a freaking rhino.

I had to regulate the situation and yelled at the ex and told her to knock it off because this is MY house. Besides, nobody in this world is going to come into my house and treat any part of my family that way.

I was actually really embarrassed because there were some mothers here with their children and this happened right in front of them. These are people that I see every day! Luckily, I guess my sister (who was sitting right by my mom), told my mom to sit down because it was my daughter’s birthday…so thanks sis!

After everybody left, the ex really wanted me to take her home because she had an AA meeting to go to that night. On the way home I explained to my ex that we are divorced and that this will never happen again. If she wants to have a party for the girls, then SHE can give it to them.