I kicked her ass out!

For some reason, I allowed the girls mom to come over yesterday to see the girls. I knew this was a bad idea because of all the bullshit and drama she provides for our life.

First, she was supposed to pick the oldest daughter up from school. I had to go to the school anyway to pick up my son. I knew (because it has happened in the past), that she would not be able to pick up my daughter. After I got my son, I went and stood in front of my daughter’s classroom like I usually do. No sign of her mom. I received a phone call from her about five minutes before the bell rang. She said there was some sort of accident and she would not be able to pick her up. She asked if she could just meet at my house. So I said “Okay”.

She got here over an hour late. She was all dressed up and I presume it was because she knew my girlfriend was going to be here and she wanted to make her jealous. Luckily, my girlfriend is not that type of woman…she’s actually a WOMAN.

When she got here, you could feel her overly inflated ego taking up most of the space in my house. I could instantly feel that this was a horrible idea.

There were some gummy bears my girlfriend bought for her daughter that was sick. My ex proceeded to open them and give them to my girls without even asking. I told her who they were for and she said in a controlling voice “They can share cant they”? I took them away because that was just rude.

Then she said that we needed to talk and asked if I would go outside with her, so I did. She said that her boyfriend asked her to marry him (poor bastard), and she said yes. She was even wearing an engagement ring, (I will get into that in a moment). She made it a point to say that he come from money and that when they get their own place, she is going to gain custody of my girls and they are going to live with them.

NOBODY in this world is going to tell me that they are going to take my children away from me. So obviously I got pretty pissed off. I actually politely asked her to leave. She came in the house and told the girls that “I” said she had to leave. I did say she had to leave but when she told the girls, she did it in a way to make me look like a horrible person.

The girls started crying and I raised my voice and told her to “Get the hell out of my house or I would call the cops”. She still was sitting down. So, I took my girlfriends daughter into my bedroom where my sick girlfriend was because I didn’t think she needed to see and hear any of the conversation.

After the ex left, my oldest was crying hysterically and was calling me “mean” because I made her mommy leave. I didn’t quite know what to do because I was so pissed off.

Now I am going to go to court, spend even more money that I don’t have and prove that the ex is an unfit mother and try to get supervised visitation.