My second ex-wife turned out to be a total nut case. We met at a bar of all places (that should have told me something right off the bat). Very soon afterword she got pregnant, like three months after…I think, it may have been sooner. My mom says she got knocked up to keep a hold of me and to be honest, I have to agree.
We were together for quite a long time (I think about three years) before we actually got married. We finally tied the knot in April of 2004.
Ex-wife number 2, had the worst attitude and temper. She would flip out at the drop of a hat. If we got into a fight or she didn’t get her way, she literally would not talk to me for a freaking week. Sometimes, it was the best week of my life. She started partying and stuff and cheating on me as well. She started coming home in the early morning hours if at all.
We worked through our problems (for the time being) and things seemed to get better. But not for long. She eventually got a job bar tending. Not long after that, she started cheating again. And again, we worked through our problems. I don’t believe in divorce nor was I raised in a divorced family.
We had another daughter who is now two, soon to be three. My wife found another job bar tending. This was crap because in the past we had talked about her bar tending and both agreed that it was a horrible idea. Really great money, but it wasn’t for us. This time, shedidn’t even discuss it with me. She basically just took the job and told me to deal with it.
No joke, one week after she started this job she started cheating on me AGAIN! I noticed that she didn’t let the kids play with her cell phone anymore (it used to never be a problem). Then I noticed that she was sleeping with it.
On March 25th 2008, I confronted her about this. I asked to see her cell phone. She would not let me and said that I should not “have” to check up on her. I explained to her that if she had nothing to hide, she should have no problem letting me see her cell phone. She was admit about it. She kept getting ready for work and had her cell phone in her back pocket. I tried to grab it and she turned really quick and gave me this look that she would kill me if I got it. Right then and there I told her to get the f**k out of my house.
The next couple of months were extremely trying. A first, she had one of my atmcards. When ever I got paid, she would go and take out ALL the money leaving me with nothing to take care of my kids. That’s right, she left and left her girls behind.
I cancelled the atm card. But, she has an extremely good memory and I started getting charges on my bank account. She remembered my credit card number and was buying stuff all over the place. So I had to change my whole baning account and information. To make things better, I filed a complaint with the bank and got almost all of my money back. She had taken somewhere around $2500.
I had a GREAT job working for an air conditioning contractor. The company I worked for was very understanding and helped me out a lot. I used to be to work between 6:30 and 7 a.m. Now I had my three kids and hedto get my son on the bus, daughter to school, and bring my infant to work with me. The ex was supposed to pick up the little one at my work but this happened only once. Unfortunately, I had to quit my job so I could take care of my kids.
Now, she is in a alcohol rehab place (personally I think it is just an excuse for her actions, she cold never take responsibility). She owes me child support and doesn’t pay. She expects to be my friend but all she does it screw people over and ask me to buy her things like smokes.
I cannot wait till the kids are of age and I do not ever have to deal with this crazy psycho again.
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