Her mother found herself another boyfriend to take advantage of. She [...]]]> My oldest daughter adores her mother for some reason, even after she has broken her little heart time and time again. My girlfriend told me just the other day that my daughter said she wanted to be just like her mom. That really disturbs me.

Her mother found herself another boyfriend to take advantage of. She started going to my daughter’s school on Wednesdays to spend some time with the girls, my daughter gets out of school early on Wednesdays. Her boyfriend was the one driving her to see her kids.

Fortunately, her boyfriend broke up with her (that’s another story we will get into in another story…but it’s a good one). The past two Wednesdays my daughter has anticipated her mother picking her up from school but it never happened. She anticipated it because her mother said she would.

I always stand right out in front of her classroom when school is out. Usually, the door swings open and I can see my daughter in line behind everyone else waving to me from inside the classroom. It is actually one of the highlights of my day. But the past two Wednesdays she is looking for her mother. When she doesn’t see her, she just walks over to me, buries her face in my chest, and starts to cry. My heart drops and I just sit there and hold her a bit until she is ready to walk to the car.

Yesterday, she tried calling her mother. She was getting mad that it wouldn’t let her leave a message. I listened to it and found that she had either changed her phone number or cancelled her cell service. Another broken heart for my daughter. Who knows how long it may be until we hear from her.

As always, she didn’t call or [...]]]> My ex-wife has been throwing a fit about not seeing the girls and saying that I am keeping them from her. On Tuesday, she and I talked and she was supposed to come over on Wednesday to see them. She was even supposed to pick my oldest up from school.

As always, she didn’t call or anything on Wednesday. I picked up my oldest and went home. When I got home, she did call me and said that she “Forgot she had court”. I had plans to decorate our Christmas tree that day with my girlfriend and all the kids. So we planned on the next day for her to see the kids.

Again, no phone call or anything for her Thursday visitation. We were outside hanging Christmas lights when my girlfriend said “Hey wasn’t the girls mom supposed to come over & see them”? I just told her yes and that this is the way it always is. SO on Thursday, the ex-wife didn’t even call until later that evening.

Thursday evening, she asked if the girls could spend the night with her on Friday. She said she was able to get her own place and that her now boyfriend is flipping the bill. I told her “yes” and the plan was to meet up for her to get the kids on Friday.

Friday rolls around and I text messaged her saying my oldest got sick and stayed home from school and that I also needed her new address. I certainly wasn’t going to let the girls go without having her address. No response from the ex-wife. My oldest daughter even called her & left her a voicemail and text messaged her twice. Still, no response.

So there you have it! I am NOT keeping the kids away from their mother; she is doing it just fine herself.

First, she was supposed to pick the oldest daughter up from school. I had to go to the school anyway to [...]]]> For some reason, I allowed the girls mom to come over yesterday to see the girls. I knew this was a bad idea because of all the bullshit and drama she provides for our life.

First, she was supposed to pick the oldest daughter up from school. I had to go to the school anyway to pick up my son. I knew (because it has happened in the past), that she would not be able to pick up my daughter. After I got my son, I went and stood in front of my daughter’s classroom like I usually do. No sign of her mom. I received a phone call from her about five minutes before the bell rang. She said there was some sort of accident and she would not be able to pick her up. She asked if she could just meet at my house. So I said “Okay”.

She got here over an hour late. She was all dressed up and I presume it was because she knew my girlfriend was going to be here and she wanted to make her jealous. Luckily, my girlfriend is not that type of woman…she’s actually a WOMAN.

When she got here, you could feel her overly inflated ego taking up most of the space in my house. I could instantly feel that this was a horrible idea.

There were some gummy bears my girlfriend bought for her daughter that was sick. My ex proceeded to open them and give them to my girls without even asking. I told her who they were for and she said in a controlling voice “They can share cant they”? I took them away because that was just rude.

Then she said that we needed to talk and asked if I would go outside with her, so I did. She said that her boyfriend asked her to marry him (poor bastard), and she said yes. She was even wearing an engagement ring, (I will get into that in a moment). She made it a point to say that he come from money and that when they get their own place, she is going to gain custody of my girls and they are going to live with them.

NOBODY in this world is going to tell me that they are going to take my children away from me. So obviously I got pretty pissed off. I actually politely asked her to leave. She came in the house and told the girls that “I” said she had to leave. I did say she had to leave but when she told the girls, she did it in a way to make me look like a horrible person.

The girls started crying and I raised my voice and told her to “Get the hell out of my house or I would call the cops”. She still was sitting down. So, I took my girlfriends daughter into my bedroom where my sick girlfriend was because I didn’t think she needed to see and hear any of the conversation.

After the ex left, my oldest was crying hysterically and was calling me “mean” because I made her mommy leave. I didn’t quite know what to do because I was so pissed off.

Now I am going to go to court, spend even more money that I don’t have and prove that the ex is an unfit mother and try to get supervised visitation.

She looked up on the internet to see if she had any warrants. Apparently she did. She went to the court house (or something to that effect), and was promptly arrested. She [...]]]> I received a phone call yesterday and to my surprise it was my ex-wife in jail. Here’s the story I was told by her…

She looked up on the internet to see if she had any warrants. Apparently she did. She went to the court house (or something to that effect), and was promptly arrested. She told me her bail was $55,000 dollars.

She said it had something to do with a DUI she had just after we split up. I was waiting for her to ask me to bail her out but she didn’t. I was shocked! She did however get bailed out by her now boyfriend. This is the first time I have heard anything about a boyfriend because she is always telling me how much she loves me & stuff (don’t worry, it goes in one ear and out the other).

Later in the evening, she called me back so I can conference call with her mom because she was still in jail. It was a funny conversation. She just told her mom what was going on while I simply listened. This is also the first time her mom heard she has a boyfriend. Her mom was kinda pissed off. I wish I could have recorded the conversation but that’s illegal.

Anyway, I thought the whole thing was pretty funny in a sick kind of way.

First off, why don’t you have [...]]]> My girls went to spend the weekend with their mother and Nana (that’s what they call their grandma on their mom’s side). Yesterday I got a call from their mother saying she needed diapers for the little one and asked if I could bring some to her. How freaking annoying!

First off, why don’t you have any? Oh yea, she could care less to have a job and depends on her mother to buy her everything. I even had to give her some money yesterday to buy some milk for the girls. Second, it is one hell of a drive to go down there. It may take me anywhere between an hour and a half to two hours to go there and back. That’s a lot of gas!

What a turd! She is supposed to be paying me child support (in which she NEVER has). I am going to be getting them medical insurance and she is supposed to pay half (I know she won’t). I need to find out what types of laws are out there for deadbeat parents.

If she cannot take care of her kids while they are in her care, she obviously should not have them at all.